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	<title>Comments on: Umm, yeah, so I emailed the five-year BF</title>
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		<title>By: The Dateable Dork</title>
		<link>http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/04/umm-yeah-so-i-emailed-the-five-year-bf/comment-page-1/#comment-1222</link>
		<dc:creator>The Dateable Dork</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 01:11:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>KT - Hahaha.  Yeah, but doesn&#039;t LinkedIn send an email to your regular email address letting you know you have a message?  I get those emails, anyway...

P.S. - I am anti-Facebook!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>KT &#8211; Hahaha.  Yeah, but doesn&#8217;t LinkedIn send an email to your regular email address letting you know you have a message?  I get those emails, anyway&#8230;</p>
<p>P.S. &#8211; I am anti-Facebook!</p>
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		<title>By: KT</title>
		<link>http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/04/umm-yeah-so-i-emailed-the-five-year-bf/comment-page-1/#comment-1216</link>
		<dc:creator>KT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 02:08:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, now you will have your answer- good or bad.

I NEVER check my LinkedIn account so don&#039;t be surprised if he doesn&#039;t immediately get back to you.  It&#039;s not like it&#039;s Facebook.  :-)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;KT’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://nonsequiturchica.blogspot.com/2009/04/first-weekend-in-dc.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;First weekend in DC&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, now you will have your answer- good or bad.</p>
<p>I NEVER check my LinkedIn account so don&#8217;t be surprised if he doesn&#8217;t immediately get back to you.  It&#8217;s not like it&#8217;s Facebook.  <img src='http://www.thedateabledork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em>KT’s last blog post..<a href="http://nonsequiturchica.blogspot.com/2009/04/first-weekend-in-dc.html" rel="nofollow">First weekend in DC</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: The Dateable Dork</title>
		<link>http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/04/umm-yeah-so-i-emailed-the-five-year-bf/comment-page-1/#comment-1215</link>
		<dc:creator>The Dateable Dork</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 01:13:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Buddha - Why not move forward instead of moving back, you ask?  Because it seems that all my various and sundry attempts to move forward land me right back where I started!  Looking back, I was so happy... I guess I just really miss that feeling.

Tony - True, very true.  I&#039;m only human, after all.

Hammer - Hey, if that works for you, great!  I think it would be really hard for me to meet other guys through my ex... it would just be weird, you know?  

Mr NYC - I know, I know... and I still say that breaking up back then was the right thing to do for a bunch of reasons... but that doesn&#039;t make me miss him any less.  :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Buddha &#8211; Why not move forward instead of moving back, you ask?  Because it seems that all my various and sundry attempts to move forward land me right back where I started!  Looking back, I was so happy&#8230; I guess I just really miss that feeling.</p>
<p>Tony &#8211; True, very true.  I&#8217;m only human, after all.</p>
<p>Hammer &#8211; Hey, if that works for you, great!  I think it would be really hard for me to meet other guys through my ex&#8230; it would just be weird, you know?  </p>
<p>Mr NYC &#8211; I know, I know&#8230; and I still say that breaking up back then was the right thing to do for a bunch of reasons&#8230; but that doesn&#8217;t make me miss him any less.  <img src='http://www.thedateabledork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mr NYC</title>
		<link>http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/04/umm-yeah-so-i-emailed-the-five-year-bf/comment-page-1/#comment-1211</link>
		<dc:creator>Mr NYC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 22:52:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just remember, you broke up for a reason.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just remember, you broke up for a reason.</p>
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		<title>By: Hammer</title>
		<link>http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/04/umm-yeah-so-i-emailed-the-five-year-bf/comment-page-1/#comment-1209</link>
		<dc:creator>Hammer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 17:38:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interestingly, my ex ex checked my profile out on match the other day so today I actually emailed her to see how she was doing. To be perfectly honest, I have no intention of getting together with her, she&#039;s not quite hot enough to be my girlfriend anymore, although she&#039;s looking really good. I just want to cultivate a friendship with her because we were just so intellectually compatible.

A perk of that is that I can maybe meet new girls through her and potentially use her as leverage with promoters to get into venues for free.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Hammer’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://hammer86blog.com/2009/04/01/tailoring-your-game-to-attract-the-girls-you-want/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Tailoring Your Game to Attract the Girls You Want&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interestingly, my ex ex checked my profile out on match the other day so today I actually emailed her to see how she was doing. To be perfectly honest, I have no intention of getting together with her, she&#8217;s not quite hot enough to be my girlfriend anymore, although she&#8217;s looking really good. I just want to cultivate a friendship with her because we were just so intellectually compatible.</p>
<p>A perk of that is that I can maybe meet new girls through her and potentially use her as leverage with promoters to get into venues for free.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Hammer’s last blog post..<a href="http://hammer86blog.com/2009/04/01/tailoring-your-game-to-attract-the-girls-you-want/" rel="nofollow">Tailoring Your Game to Attract the Girls You Want</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Tony</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 06:34:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s easy to contact an ex when you&#039;re low, but doesn&#039;t mean it&#039;s necessarily the right thing to do sadly :-(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s easy to contact an ex when you&#8217;re low, but doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s necessarily the right thing to do sadly <img src='http://www.thedateabledork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Buddha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Buddha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 05:20:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think past relationships belong in the past. There&#039;s a reason why it ended.   No, you&#039;re not crazy, but why not just move forward?  Why go back?

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Buddha’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://twbuddha.blogspot.com/2009/04/kristofferson.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Kristofferson&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think past relationships belong in the past. There&#8217;s a reason why it ended.   No, you&#8217;re not crazy, but why not just move forward?  Why go back?</p>
<p><abbr><em>Buddha’s last blog post..<a href="http://twbuddha.blogspot.com/2009/04/kristofferson.html" rel="nofollow">Kristofferson</a></em></abbr></p>
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