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	<title>Comments on: A day of loss: Farrah, Michael, and my job security</title>
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		<title>By: Honey</title>
		<link>http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/06/a-day-of-loss-farrah-michael-and-my-job-security/comment-page-1/#comment-2019</link>
		<dc:creator>Honey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 17:11:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, there are worse things than Dr. DD!  But I&#039;m sure you&#039;d rather have the financial stability...hope it goes well for you.

Yeah, it&#039;s weird watching &quot;thriller&quot; on CNN.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Honey’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://honeyandlance.com/good-news-follows-good-news-or-linkedin-works&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Good News Follows Good News: Or, LinkedIn Works!?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, there are worse things than Dr. DD!  But I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;d rather have the financial stability&#8230;hope it goes well for you.</p>
<p>Yeah, it&#8217;s weird watching &#8220;thriller&#8221; on CNN.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Honey’s last blog post..<a href="http://honeyandlance.com/good-news-follows-good-news-or-linkedin-works" rel="nofollow">Good News Follows Good News: Or, LinkedIn Works!?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: The Dateable Dork</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Dateable Dork</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 19:50:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Virgin - Thanks for the advice, as I know you&#039;re very well versed in this sort of thing!  That&#039;s exactly my plan - I&#039;m going to keep chugging along, business as usual, until these &quot;changes&quot; start to take place, and then take it one day at a time from there.  My boss shares the same concerns that I do, and it&#039;s somewhat comforting to know that even he was out of the loop on the acquisition.  We&#039;ll see how it goes... but I&#039;m not touching my savings in the near future, that&#039;s for sure!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Virgin &#8211; Thanks for the advice, as I know you&#8217;re very well versed in this sort of thing!  That&#8217;s exactly my plan &#8211; I&#8217;m going to keep chugging along, business as usual, until these &#8220;changes&#8221; start to take place, and then take it one day at a time from there.  My boss shares the same concerns that I do, and it&#8217;s somewhat comforting to know that even he was out of the loop on the acquisition.  We&#8217;ll see how it goes&#8230; but I&#8217;m not touching my savings in the near future, that&#8217;s for sure!</p>
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		<title>By: The Virgin</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Virgin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 20:41:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was drunk-blogging last night, but here&#039;s my longer answer.

I bet I know what they said today (or even yesterday). They called everyone into the room to address concerns about the changes the company will be going through. But don&#039;t worry, &quot;business is good and &quot;it&#039;s the best staff he&#039;s ever worked with.&quot;

But I wouldn&#039;t get alarmed yet, there are people who always manage to hang on to jobs, like my friend. Never laid off in his life and only came close to it once...when he left WorldCom a week before their fallout many years ago.

My advice is to just continue to do your job as always as it isn&#039;t lost yet, but be prepared: start saving money. Keep an eye on the attitude of the upper management and don&#039;t believe a business buzzword that comes through their mouth. Office Space wasn&#039;t a joke, watch closely for consultants. If the company is multi-divisional across different locations (has a &quot;home&quot; office), WATCH OUT for HR coming in. Keep an eye on other opportunities and if something else good comes along, absolutely explore it.

As Mad Eye Moody said in Harry Potter, &quot;Constant vigilance!&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was drunk-blogging last night, but here&#8217;s my longer answer.</p>
<p>I bet I know what they said today (or even yesterday). They called everyone into the room to address concerns about the changes the company will be going through. But don&#8217;t worry, &#8220;business is good and &#8220;it&#8217;s the best staff he&#8217;s ever worked with.&#8221;</p>
<p>But I wouldn&#8217;t get alarmed yet, there are people who always manage to hang on to jobs, like my friend. Never laid off in his life and only came close to it once&#8230;when he left WorldCom a week before their fallout many years ago.</p>
<p>My advice is to just continue to do your job as always as it isn&#8217;t lost yet, but be prepared: start saving money. Keep an eye on the attitude of the upper management and don&#8217;t believe a business buzzword that comes through their mouth. Office Space wasn&#8217;t a joke, watch closely for consultants. If the company is multi-divisional across different locations (has a &#8220;home&#8221; office), WATCH OUT for HR coming in. Keep an eye on other opportunities and if something else good comes along, absolutely explore it.</p>
<p>As Mad Eye Moody said in Harry Potter, &#8220;Constant vigilance!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: The Dateable Dork</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Dateable Dork</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 11:36:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Simon - I don&#039;t know if I can forget about it that quickly, but hopefully the shock will wear off in a few days and we can all get back to business as usual.  Hopefully.

Virgin - Believe it or not, I thought of you immediately after they dropped the bombshell yesterday - you were so right!  But instead of looking for another job, this might be the perfect opportunity for me to go back to school.  Dr. DD, anyone?  : )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Simon &#8211; I don&#8217;t know if I can forget about it that quickly, but hopefully the shock will wear off in a few days and we can all get back to business as usual.  Hopefully.</p>
<p>Virgin &#8211; Believe it or not, I thought of you immediately after they dropped the bombshell yesterday &#8211; you were so right!  But instead of looking for another job, this might be the perfect opportunity for me to go back to school.  Dr. DD, anyone?  : )</p>
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		<title>By: The Virgin</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Virgin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 04:57:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Five words (from experience) &quot;lying-fucks-start-looking-now&quot;</description>
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		<title>By: Simon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Simon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 01:21:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Farrah and Michael are small losses compared to not being sure about your job. I&#039;d say your best bet is to pretend like it never happened, that way you won&#039;t be facing it head on all day long tomorrow.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Simon’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://simonandcole.com/2009/06/24/manifestations-of-loneliness-by-simon/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Manifestations of Loneliness by Simon&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Farrah and Michael are small losses compared to not being sure about your job. I&#8217;d say your best bet is to pretend like it never happened, that way you won&#8217;t be facing it head on all day long tomorrow.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Simon’s last blog post..<a href="http://simonandcole.com/2009/06/24/manifestations-of-loneliness-by-simon/" rel="nofollow">Manifestations of Loneliness by Simon</a></em></abbr></p>
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