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		<title>By: hubman</title>
		<link>http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/change-we-need/comment-page-1/#comment-2829</link>
		<dc:creator>hubman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 00:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No offense taken at all!  

(I have a habit of returning to blogs where the writer actually replies to comments, which I try to do, but don&#039;t succeed as often as I would like...)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No offense taken at all!  </p>
<p>(I have a habit of returning to blogs where the writer actually replies to comments, which I try to do, but don&#8217;t succeed as often as I would like&#8230;)<br />
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		<title>By: The Dateable Dork</title>
		<link>http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/change-we-need/comment-page-1/#comment-2805</link>
		<dc:creator>The Dateable Dork</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 03:09:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jonsi - Thanks for the support/advice.  True - most of the PhD students I knew were in healthy relationships, and yes, most of them were a little odd.  Ha - I&#039;ll fit right in.  : )

Chris - Yeah, the idea of &quot;Dr. DD&quot; has appealed to me since I was a teenager, and I think I still like it.  But is it too many D&#039;s???  Triple D?  Can I handle that?  Hahaha.

Honey - A grad student with cable and sushi?  Unheard of!  : )  I&#039;m counting on the fact that I won&#039;t have to take out any additional student loans (my old ones are still being paid off), but we&#039;ll see.  I&#039;m flexible at this point.

Bethany - Good luck to you too!  I think undergrad is a lot more stressful but a lot more exciting than grad school - hahaha.  Enjoy it while you can!

Virgin - I only watch a few channels on cable (mostly TBS and Bravo), but I don&#039;t know WHAT I would do without them.  : )

Mitch - Thanks!  I think my career has a lot to do with it - it&#039;s just not scratching that itch, know what I mean?  And considering my meager salary, I wouldn&#039;t be giving up all that much.

KT - No kidding!  That&#039;s one of my biggest worries about the application process.  I think I&#039;m a strong candidate... but probably one of many.  Fingers crossed for lots of acceptance letters.  : )

hubman - Sounds like a good arrangement, and I&#039;m glad it worked out for you.  I&#039;m sure I&#039;ll be fine as well.  Sorry if I was a little bitter in my comment above... it&#039;s just that I get a little jaded from all my married friends being supported by their spouses.  No offense taken, I hope.

m - Hahaha - thanks for the German language lesson!  I&#039;ll never forget this word now.  Hope it&#039;s on the GRE!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jonsi &#8211; Thanks for the support/advice.  True &#8211; most of the PhD students I knew were in healthy relationships, and yes, most of them were a little odd.  Ha &#8211; I&#8217;ll fit right in.  : )</p>
<p>Chris &#8211; Yeah, the idea of &#8220;Dr. DD&#8221; has appealed to me since I was a teenager, and I think I still like it.  But is it too many D&#8217;s???  Triple D?  Can I handle that?  Hahaha.</p>
<p>Honey &#8211; A grad student with cable and sushi?  Unheard of!  : )  I&#8217;m counting on the fact that I won&#8217;t have to take out any additional student loans (my old ones are still being paid off), but we&#8217;ll see.  I&#8217;m flexible at this point.</p>
<p>Bethany &#8211; Good luck to you too!  I think undergrad is a lot more stressful but a lot more exciting than grad school &#8211; hahaha.  Enjoy it while you can!</p>
<p>Virgin &#8211; I only watch a few channels on cable (mostly TBS and Bravo), but I don&#8217;t know WHAT I would do without them.  : )</p>
<p>Mitch &#8211; Thanks!  I think my career has a lot to do with it &#8211; it&#8217;s just not scratching that itch, know what I mean?  And considering my meager salary, I wouldn&#8217;t be giving up all that much.</p>
<p>KT &#8211; No kidding!  That&#8217;s one of my biggest worries about the application process.  I think I&#8217;m a strong candidate&#8230; but probably one of many.  Fingers crossed for lots of acceptance letters.  : )</p>
<p>hubman &#8211; Sounds like a good arrangement, and I&#8217;m glad it worked out for you.  I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;ll be fine as well.  Sorry if I was a little bitter in my comment above&#8230; it&#8217;s just that I get a little jaded from all my married friends being supported by their spouses.  No offense taken, I hope.</p>
<p>m &#8211; Hahaha &#8211; thanks for the German language lesson!  I&#8217;ll never forget this word now.  Hope it&#8217;s on the GRE!<br />
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		<title>By: m</title>
		<link>http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/change-we-need/comment-page-1/#comment-2789</link>
		<dc:creator>m</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 06:26:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Ersatz&quot; is German and means something that is used as a replacement for something else. 
It is used quite a lot over here. ;-)

examples:
&quot;Ich esse Margarine als Ersatz für Butter.&quot;
Means you&#039;re eating margarine instead of butter. To meet your weight expectations or the like. 

&quot;Dies ist mein Ersatz-T-Shirt.&quot;
Means you have a second shirt you use when the first one is dirty.

It is - to my knowledge - not used for &quot;fake&quot; in German which would be &quot;Fälschung&quot; or &quot;Imitation&quot;.

Nice to learn that (and how) it can be used in English.

Happy learning to you. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Ersatz&#8221; is German and means something that is used as a replacement for something else.<br />
It is used quite a lot over here. <img src='http://www.thedateabledork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>examples:<br />
&#8220;Ich esse Margarine als Ersatz für Butter.&#8221;<br />
Means you&#8217;re eating margarine instead of butter. To meet your weight expectations or the like. </p>
<p>&#8220;Dies ist mein Ersatz-T-Shirt.&#8221;<br />
Means you have a second shirt you use when the first one is dirty.</p>
<p>It is &#8211; to my knowledge &#8211; not used for &#8220;fake&#8221; in German which would be &#8220;Fälschung&#8221; or &#8220;Imitation&#8221;.</p>
<p>Nice to learn that (and how) it can be used in English.</p>
<p>Happy learning to you. <img src='http://www.thedateabledork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: hubman</title>
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		<dc:creator>hubman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 00:08:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Perhaps I should clarify my support arrangement in graduate school.  Veronica worked full time, and I had a NIH pre-doctoral fellowship, plus the GI Bill from my prior military service.  In reality, she pulled in about 60% of our gross and I pulled in the rest.

Where there&#039;s a will, there&#039;s a way.  You&#039;ll do fine!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps I should clarify my support arrangement in graduate school.  Veronica worked full time, and I had a NIH pre-doctoral fellowship, plus the GI Bill from my prior military service.  In reality, she pulled in about 60% of our gross and I pulled in the rest.</p>
<p>Where there&#8217;s a will, there&#8217;s a way.  You&#8217;ll do fine!<br />
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		<title>By: KT</title>
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		<dc:creator>KT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 22:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good luck!!  Competition is going to be fierce because of the poor job market but I&#039;m sure you can do it!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck!!  Competition is going to be fierce because of the poor job market but I&#8217;m sure you can do it!<br />
<span class="cluv"> KT&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://nonsequiturchica.blogspot.com/2009/08/whip-it-up-week-7.html" rel="nofollow">Whip it Up Week #7</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.thedateabledork.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Mitch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mitch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 21:58:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ohh...  very jealous of the idea of going back to school.  It&#039;s something I&#039;ve considered too (for a PhD), but alas, just can&#039;t justify it in my career...

Good luck with it on your end though!
.-= Mitch&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://ontherantagain.wordpress.com/2009/08/12/random-photo-wednesday-6/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Random Photo Wednesday # 6&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ohh&#8230;  very jealous of the idea of going back to school.  It&#8217;s something I&#8217;ve considered too (for a PhD), but alas, just can&#8217;t justify it in my career&#8230;</p>
<p>Good luck with it on your end though!<br />
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		<title>By: The Virgin</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Virgin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 21:17:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eh, only when you get rid of cable do you realize that nothing was ever on anyway, even on 100-200 channels. ;)

Intriguing idea, good luck with your plans.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eh, only when you get rid of cable do you realize that nothing was ever on anyway, even on 100-200 channels. <img src='http://www.thedateabledork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Intriguing idea, good luck with your plans.</p>
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		<title>By: Bethany</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bethany</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 19:16:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good luck!! I&#039;m still working on undergrad!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck!! I&#8217;m still working on undergrad!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Bethany&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://wwcollegegirl.com/daily-journal-81209/" rel="nofollow">{Daily Journal} 8/12/09</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.thedateabledork.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Honey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Honey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 16:38:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;d be sure you can do it without student loans (or without too many).  The BF and I have $100K in student loans APIECE from grad school.  It&#039;s no way to live, especially considering most fields are so saturated with newly minted PhDs that the tenure-track job placement rate is...well, depressing.

That said, I LOVED my PhD program and found the love of my life there.  And there was both cable AND sushi.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d be sure you can do it without student loans (or without too many).  The BF and I have $100K in student loans APIECE from grad school.  It&#8217;s no way to live, especially considering most fields are so saturated with newly minted PhDs that the tenure-track job placement rate is&#8230;well, depressing.</p>
<p>That said, I LOVED my PhD program and found the love of my life there.  And there was both cable AND sushi.<br />
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 14:55:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome DD.  Stay on task and in a few years, that will go faster than you realize, we will be calling you DOCTOR DD.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome DD.  Stay on task and in a few years, that will go faster than you realize, we will be calling you DOCTOR DD.</p>
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		<title>By: Jonsi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonsi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 14:50:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m finishing my PhD, and I can&#039;t wait to be done!  Yes, the lack of finances and culture take it&#039;s toll, but really, at some point, you just want to begin the next chapter of your life.

For you, that is going back to school.  I may complain about being poor, but at the end of the day, I have an office overlooking the beach, a subsidized apartment one bedroom apartment with an ocean view in the most expensive zip code in the country, I can take half days off whenever I want (even though I work 60+ hours a week) or an hour here or there to go running or surfing in the middle of the day, and I always have money remaining for burritos and occasionally, sushi.  You won&#039;t be able to save; you might incur a little debt (a few thousand vs. tens of thousands).  But the financial aspects are doable, and you receive a flexible lifestyle.

It&#039;s also a good place to meet romantic prospects.  The odds are good, and the goods are odd, but most people I know are in healthy, sustained relationships.  That&#039;s not financial support, but the most difficult aspect is often the emotional support.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m finishing my PhD, and I can&#8217;t wait to be done!  Yes, the lack of finances and culture take it&#8217;s toll, but really, at some point, you just want to begin the next chapter of your life.</p>
<p>For you, that is going back to school.  I may complain about being poor, but at the end of the day, I have an office overlooking the beach, a subsidized apartment one bedroom apartment with an ocean view in the most expensive zip code in the country, I can take half days off whenever I want (even though I work 60+ hours a week) or an hour here or there to go running or surfing in the middle of the day, and I always have money remaining for burritos and occasionally, sushi.  You won&#8217;t be able to save; you might incur a little debt (a few thousand vs. tens of thousands).  But the financial aspects are doable, and you receive a flexible lifestyle.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s also a good place to meet romantic prospects.  The odds are good, and the goods are odd, but most people I know are in healthy, sustained relationships.  That&#8217;s not financial support, but the most difficult aspect is often the emotional support.</p>
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		<title>By: The Dateable Dork</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Dateable Dork</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 11:42:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gray - Thanks!  Me too.  : )

hubman - Wow, I&#039;m so glad things worked out so well for you, and it just supports my theory that somehow I&#039;ll figure out a way to work things out financially.  One note, however - you mention that your wife &quot;was able to support&quot; you and your children, and I definitely won&#039;t have this option.  Many PhD students I knew in school did indeed have a spouse supporting them, but alas, I&#039;ll be alone with nothing but my meager stipend to get me through the day.  I could be bitter, but I&#039;m trying not to be.  Trying....  : )
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gray &#8211; Thanks!  Me too.  : )</p>
<p>hubman &#8211; Wow, I&#8217;m so glad things worked out so well for you, and it just supports my theory that somehow I&#8217;ll figure out a way to work things out financially.  One note, however &#8211; you mention that your wife &#8220;was able to support&#8221; you and your children, and I definitely won&#8217;t have this option.  Many PhD students I knew in school did indeed have a spouse supporting them, but alas, I&#8217;ll be alone with nothing but my meager stipend to get me through the day.  I could be bitter, but I&#8217;m trying not to be.  Trying&#8230;.  : )<br />
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		<title>By: hubman</title>
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		<dc:creator>hubman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 11:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you!

A few words about implications...

I went back to school for my Ph.D. after working for 7 years post-Masters degree, with a 3 yr old child in tow, asking my wife to quit her job and move, and with plans to have another child someday.

Guess what? It all worked out and was completely worth it.  I finished my degree in 4 yrs, our daughter was born towards the end of my 3rd year, Veronica was able to support us, and we even bought a house while we were there and made a nice chunk of change when we moved back to the Boston area.  And now, 2 yrs after finishing my Ph.D., I couldn&#039;t be happier at work or at home.

&quot;If it was easy, anyone could do it&quot;  Don&#039;t know where I first heard that, but it certainly seems appropriate.

You have my sincerest best wishes DD!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you!</p>
<p>A few words about implications&#8230;</p>
<p>I went back to school for my Ph.D. after working for 7 years post-Masters degree, with a 3 yr old child in tow, asking my wife to quit her job and move, and with plans to have another child someday.</p>
<p>Guess what? It all worked out and was completely worth it.  I finished my degree in 4 yrs, our daughter was born towards the end of my 3rd year, Veronica was able to support us, and we even bought a house while we were there and made a nice chunk of change when we moved back to the Boston area.  And now, 2 yrs after finishing my Ph.D., I couldn&#8217;t be happier at work or at home.</p>
<p>&#8220;If it was easy, anyone could do it&#8221;  Don&#8217;t know where I first heard that, but it certainly seems appropriate.</p>
<p>You have my sincerest best wishes DD!<br />
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		<dc:creator>Gray</dc:creator>
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		<description>Congratulations!! I think this is a great idea!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations!! I think this is a great idea!<br />
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