Comments on: My second first date with NYL http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/my-second-first-date-with-nyl/ Dating (mis)adventures of an unexpectedly sexy New Yorker Fri, 30 Jul 2010 03:34:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: The Dateable Dork http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/my-second-first-date-with-nyl/comment-page-1/#comment-2715 The Dateable Dork Sun, 09 Aug 2009 19:08:01 +0000 http://www.thedateabledork.com/?p=1039#comment-2715 Simone Grant - Very good point about guys paying for things. Also, good point about his past relationship - all I know about it is that he was bored and ditched her, which is similar to what happened with me, only this time he held on a little longer. Who knows what happened. .-= The Dateable Dork´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/my-second-first-date-with-nyl/" rel="nofollow">My second first date with NYL</a> =-. Simone Grant – Very good point about guys paying for things. Also, good point about his past relationship – all I know about it is that he was bored and ditched her, which is similar to what happened with me, only this time he held on a little longer. Who knows what happened.
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]]> By: Simone Grant http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/my-second-first-date-with-nyl/comment-page-1/#comment-2703 Simone Grant Sat, 08 Aug 2009 22:53:42 +0000 http://www.thedateabledork.com/?p=1039#comment-2703 Not a date. I hang out with one of my exes all the time and he always insists on paying. It just is what it is (some guys like to be in that role). And I agree with Chris. Don't be jealous of his "success" with his last relationship. You don't know what did or didn't happen. And you probably never will. .-= Simone Grant´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.sex-lies-dating.com/3867789" rel="nofollow">Pretty Day, Ugly Thoughts</a> =-. Not a date. I hang out with one of my exes all the time and he always insists on paying. It just is what it is (some guys like to be in that role).

And I agree with Chris. Don’t be jealous of his “success” with his last relationship. You don’t know what did or didn’t happen. And you probably never will.
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]]> By: The Dateable Dork http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/my-second-first-date-with-nyl/comment-page-1/#comment-2700 The Dateable Dork Sat, 08 Aug 2009 19:44:03 +0000 http://www.thedateabledork.com/?p=1039#comment-2700 Chris - Oh man, I hope the ex-gf is ok!!! Yeah, if NYL and I see each other again, and if there is ANY remote possibility of hooking up, we really need to talk about that. Seriously. Such drama. And don't worry, I will NOT put myself through that again. No fucking way. kris - Well said! A date definitely ends with a kiss. I wonder if NYL's scumptious lips will meet with mine again.... : ) .-= The Dateable Dork´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/my-second-first-date-with-nyl/" rel="nofollow">My second first date with NYL</a> =-. Chris – Oh man, I hope the ex-gf is ok!!! Yeah, if NYL and I see each other again, and if there is ANY remote possibility of hooking up, we really need to talk about that. Seriously. Such drama. And don’t worry, I will NOT put myself through that again. No fucking way.

kris – Well said! A date definitely ends with a kiss. I wonder if NYL’s scumptious lips will meet with mine again…. : )
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]]> By: kris http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/my-second-first-date-with-nyl/comment-page-1/#comment-2567 kris Sat, 08 Aug 2009 02:29:54 +0000 http://www.thedateabledork.com/?p=1039#comment-2567 This was two "friends" hanging out, your next event with dinner and/or the question "do you want to go out?" vs. "let's catch up" or "let's meet up"... A date ends with a kiss! Good luck! :). This was two “friends” hanging out, your next event with dinner and/or the question “do you want to go out?” vs. “let’s catch up” or “let’s meet up”… A date ends with a kiss! Good luck! :) .

]]> By: Chris http://www.thedateabledork.com/2009/08/my-second-first-date-with-nyl/comment-page-1/#comment-2559 Chris Fri, 07 Aug 2009 14:10:12 +0000 http://www.thedateabledork.com/?p=1039#comment-2559 Quasi-date sounds right. And don't be too jealous of his "relationship success". That poor lady may be dealing with the same "issues" you did after sleeping with him. It sounds like hanging out with NYL, with reasonable expectations, will be fun and maybe even good for you. Just keep in mind to protect yourself, heart and body. No more year long medical sagas for our DD ;) Quasi-date sounds right. And don’t be too jealous of his “relationship success”. That poor lady may be dealing with the same “issues” you did after sleeping with him.

It sounds like hanging out with NYL, with reasonable expectations, will be fun and maybe even good for you. Just keep in mind to protect yourself, heart and body. No more year long medical sagas for our DD ;)

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