Absolutely ridiculous news
08 Oct 2009
Hot Marine took me out to dinner tonight, and guess what I managed to pry out of him?
- He has a girlfriend.
- For the past 10 months.
- And he’s living with her.
There are SO many implications to this news, and I am still in shock trying to process it. All I can say right now is that this guy is a MUCH bigger jerk than I ever thought he was (much more to his girlfriend than to me), and apparently I really don’t know him AT ALL. I will write more when I manage to calm down and process this information.
God, I couldn’t make this stuff up if I tried.
Huh…well, could be more awkward…you could have found out he had a boyfriend
October 8th, 2009 at 11:29 pmMy ex boyfriend was a marine. He cheated on me once with a Thai hooker and I took him back…(I’m an idiot), and the next time was with a stripper…who he managed to marry. Marines SUCK.
October 8th, 2009 at 11:32 pmWow.. I didn’t see that one coming.
October 9th, 2009 at 12:02 amGray´s last blog ..Fill In Fridays
Sorry to hear, DD, but with all the crap you’ve been through with this guy, are you honestly surprised he’d do something like this?
October 9th, 2009 at 12:06 amThe guy’s clearly a fucktard.
Please tell her. Somehow. My ex-husband got me pregnant twice during the time he was having an affair. I have two children from a relationship that was a lie. It was so unfair. This girl, whoever she is, deserves to know her boyfriend is a sociopath so she can move on to someone who will treat her right. He may never tell her, but continue doing that sort of thing. Please just tell her, seriously.
October 9th, 2009 at 7:33 amC´s last blog ..There Were Three in the Bed…
Hey, DD, I’m sorry for you.
What is it that causes the shock?
October 9th, 2009 at 8:20 amIs it because your perhaps existing last little spark of hope of getting more from Hot Marine is fading?
Or as you write somewhere in your last posts that your deeper feelings towards him are “inconsequential”, are you rather angry?
That’s EXACTLY what happened with my ex-marine! Except I found out that he had a girlfriend because she picked up his phone and we had a “nice” chat.
October 9th, 2009 at 8:55 amI don’t really know how that could surprise you, babe. Really douchy of him though, I don’t get how someone can stay in a relationship where they’re not satisfied.
October 9th, 2009 at 9:50 amHammer´s last blog ..NFL Betting – Week 4
DD, well your spider-sense was always telling you that there as something goofy about this guy. Turns out it was something sleazy.
Reinforces your decision to cut him out of your life.
October 9th, 2009 at 10:20 amThis is a pretty ugly development. Well, all you can do is learn from it. Obviously it’s not just you that he’s willing to treat like crap.
October 9th, 2009 at 1:16 pmHoney´s last blog ..Life. Just Life.
Well that certainly explains a few things!!!
October 9th, 2009 at 3:54 pmShannon – Yes, I suppose that would have been worse – thanks. : )
Bethany – Apparently cheating is everywhere. I never thought I would be the woman someone cheated on their girlfriend with, but here I am. I don’t think it’s exclusive to Marines, sadly.
Gray – No kidding. My mouth was hanging open in shock as this all unfolded.
Andrew – I am surprised. I knew he was a jerk, but I just thought he was a player. I didn’t think he would go this far or do something this malicious. I truly didn’t realize the extent of his capabilities. Now I know.
C – I’m so sorry to hear what happened to you. I wish that I could tell her, but I have no idea who she is or where she lives. That part of his life is completely hidden from me. I only hope she realizes what’s going on sooner rather than later.
m – See my responses above for why I was shocked by this. And yes, of course I’m angry – but not because I want him for myself, but because he involved me in an absolutely disgusting situation and was never planning on telling me, or his girlfriend. My deeper feelings for him are indeed inconsequential, and are on their way to being completely obliterated.
SheComesFirst – Ouch! At least she found out. I wonder how long it will take for Hot Marine’s girlfriend to discover his true identity…
Hammer – I don’t know what goes on in his head and don’t care to venture a guess.
Chris – No kidding. In fact, a few years ago I had asked him if the reason he never invited me over to his place was because he was hiding a wife over there… and he just laughed. Guess I wasn’t too far off after all.
Honey – Well said. Ugly is a good word for it, although I think this situation deserves something a little stronger. I am absolutely appalled.
tony – No kidding, and who knows what else is lying beneath the surface that I (and his girlfriend) will never find out about.
October 10th, 2009 at 9:24 amThe Dateable Dork´s last blog ..The face of a monster
Damn, that sucks, I feel for ya sister.
October 12th, 2009 at 12:26 pmLance´s last blog ..Life. Just Life.