Comments on: Newly-single NMP wants another blowjob

By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 02:07:01 +0000

“I mean who needs a bf?”

Love it!!! : )
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By: Ozgirl

Ozgirl — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 10:32:44 +0000

I also say go for it – I had totally shit sex with a guy who I thought was great and now just want to go out and have some fun for a while. I mean who needs a bf?

Have a great weekend for your birthday – and don’t worry 30 aint that bad. I breezed through it jobless and homeless.
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By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 03:22:17 +0000

P.S. – I seriously don’t even know WHY I can’t seem to let go of these lingering feeling for the NMP after all this time. We’re totally incompatible, and even sex with him always ends up in a weirdly uncomfortable situation. What do I want out of this? Am I holding onto the hope of what could have been when we just met? What I wanted to happen but never did? WHY can’t I just let it go???

Le sigh. I guess after all this time, I’ve carved out this little soft spot for him, and I guess I kind of like him there. I hold onto it because it’s comforting, even if it’s not reality. Oh NMP, why did you ever walk into my life???
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By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 03:11:24 +0000

Hahaha, thanks for all the advice on this completely ridiculous situation! I’m actually surprised to see so many of you telling me to go for it, considering the long and jagged history with this guy. The opportunity came and went, though, and now the NMP is back upstate and his moment of horny insanity has passed. Good thing, because now I’m starting to think that it probably would have been a good time. Ha. : )

Also, thanks for the birthday wishes, but you didn’t miss it! The big 3-0 is coming up this weekend – yikes!!!
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By: LostforWords

LostforWords — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 02:12:01 +0000

I would say forget about him. But then again, I am visiting New York and I must say that in comparison to my country the percentage of good-looking men here is significantly less. A girl wonders why…

By: Lance

Lance — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 21:30:19 +0000

Also, why haven’t you visited recently? We miss you!
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By: Lance

Lance — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 21:29:57 +0000

What actually is the problem with hooking up with the guy, right now? Your pride? You just admitted in the beginning of the post that you’re happy he’s single. Let’s skip the bullshit. At the very least, you can get into a perfectly safe and healthy FB relationship for the time being. There’s no reason to feel like a second fiddle or “cheap” because you jumped into something. Just set the boundaries and have some run, already!

By: Mr. R

Mr. R — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 18:54:50 +0000

On a totally non-related subject, here is the book by that one person who wrote the article about settling: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0525951512?ie=UTF8&tag=dasho-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0525951512

By: M.S.

M.S. — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 15:29:54 +0000

Happy Birthday!

I suppose since everyone else is giving an opinion, I would say don’t do it unless you know you can keep it casual. He seems like a selfish ass. And like others have said, there are plenty of hornballs who aren’t selfish asses. ..in New York, just waiting to be discovered by you, I’m sure..

By: KT

KT — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 14:49:38 +0000

Ewww what a creep. Continue to stand your ground. You deserve better than that!!!

By: Lawrence

Lawrence — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 10:30:01 +0000

First of all, Happy Birthday (did we miss your Birthday?!)

Second of all, congratulations on standing firm.

Third of all, like Kiera said, Why Not? You KNOW it’s be fun. Maintain limits, fool around, enjoy it, move on…

By: Nicole

Nicole — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 08:03:17 +0000

Haha! The breakup w/ his GF was inevitable, since he was talkin’ all that smack w/ you just a few months into their relationship. He sounds dirty, like some loser that just wants sex. I wouldn’t give it to him that easy (actually I wouldn’t give it to him at all). Good for you!

By: Not so Hot Marine

Not so Hot Marine — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 06:06:55 +0000

Do it.

Have fun. Write about it. Repeat.

By: Kiera

Kiera — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 05:25:46 +0000

Sorry for being a little devil floating above your shoulder but I say do it. It’d be fun, right? Satisfy your curiosity.
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By: Chris

Chris — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 02:49:37 +0000

1. Don’t do it!!!! You’ve been so good, and he pissed away his chance with you.

2. There are plenty of us out here in reader-land who aren’t hornballs who would love to be good to you.

3. I am proud of you lady, for standing your ground and valuing yourself above your insecurities. Remember who you are, and that if a guy values you, he won’t be acting like he doesn’t or dating other people.

4. Go get yourself a good guy who supports you, rolls with your crazy moments, encourages your aspirations, and screws your eyeballs off… >:)

By: Miss Alpha

Miss Alpha — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 02:46:01 +0000

Congratulations on standing your ground. I say keep the vibrator, ditch the guy.