Comments on: The NMP is being a total douche

By: Mr_Right

Mr_Right — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 13:00:24 +0000

That’s a shame, the books are about 100 times better than the movies.

By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 15:47:57 +0000

Sorry peeps, I’m really not into Harry Potter! I think I saw the first 1-2 movies years ago (when they were in the theaters), and they didn’t really do it for me, so I gave up. Have no interest in reading the books. I don’t get what the big fascination is!
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By: Shannon

Shannon — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 07:29:40 +0000

Yeah no kidding…what kind of dork are you, anyway?

By: Honey

Honey — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 17:32:14 +0000

Yeah, there are other parallels too, DD. Voldemort is supposed to be dead, and he lives in hiding, but he keeps reappearing at just the perfect moment to do maximum damage to the Wizarding World (and, sometimes, the muggle world too).

Are you saying you haven’t even seen the movies?!?!
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By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 01:51:35 +0000

Well, it seems that I picked the right term, then. “Big, bad, evil villain” is the perfect term for my you-know-who!
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By: Mr_Right

Mr_Right — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 01:37:48 +0000

Gotcha. Diferent machines and all that.

You-Know-Who is the name of Voldemort, Harry Potter’s nemesis throughout the seven books. He’s the big, bad, evil villain.

And I can’t believe you haven’t read the books. They’re VERY good! I highly recommend them.

By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:01:57 +0000

P.S. – Mr_Right – It’s totally cool with me if you don’t want to use a real email address when commenting, but each time you use a new address, your comment gets held for moderation. Just a friendly suggestion to pick one and stick with it. : )
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By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 22:59:51 +0000

Ok, I really don’t get the Voldemort reference. I haven’t read the Harry Potter books. Translation please?
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By: Mr_Right

Mr_Right — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 20:22:34 +0000

I think it’s definitely cool that you have Voldemort’s number in your cell phone.

By: Honey

Honey — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:30:56 +0000

Woo-hoo, deletion! I’m proud of you, DD!
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By: Mr_Right

Mr_Right — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:49:07 +0000

Voldemort?

By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:26:57 +0000

You know, Honey, you actually inspired me to delete a few numbers the other day. My criterion was that if I couldn’t remember who the person was, they got deleted. Sadly, you-know-who is still festering in there… one day I’ll gather up the guts for that one.
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By: Honey

Honey — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 19:25:21 +0000

I don’t know if I always actually delete the numbers (though most of the time I do). I have a bunch of numbers in my phone that I don’t delete because I can’t remember who they are, and maybe they’re important (like an ex coworker or Jake’s friends or something).
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By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 04:37:53 +0000

Of course the NMP just wants to hook up! Don’t worry, I’m completely aware of the situation. He was sexually frustrated in the last few months of his relationship, and he hasn’t gotten laid since they broke up. He’s horny, and I’m an “easy in” since we already have a history. I totally called him out on all of this over the phone, and he totally admits to it! It’s all out on the table.

Whatever. I temporarily give up on the situation. Clearly he’s being a douche, and it’s aggravating and offensive.

And Honey – clearly you are much better at deleting cell phone numbers than I am! Hitting that delete button is so… permanent. I won’t even stick my EZ-Pass on my car windshield (after living in New York for practically my entire life) because it’s just too permanent for me to handle!

(You all know I’m a little crazy, right?) : )
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By: LostforWords

LostforWords — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 01:26:46 +0000

I am with Honey on this. He is being so immature and an emotional blackmailer that you should frustrate him even more but telling him he has no game and you are hooking up with another. Friend do not behave like he is behaving. It is like he does not value like a person at all beyond your sexual abilities which is very annoying!

And regarding what Hammer said: I am actually surprised. Just because a woman hooks up with a man a few times does this mean she should continue hooking up with him?? I am sorry I do not understand this-obviously-totally male point of view.

By: Nicole

Nicole — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 18:34:41 +0000

Umm, I think he doesn’t want to be “friends” with you and spend that time eating lunch (doing something platonic). He just wants to get laid, and he isn’t really your friend. That thing about not being able to control himself in public…yeah, that’s a lame excuse you should’ve seen through. Of course he can control himself! He just doesn’t want to meet you for lunch, he wants to get it on!

Don’t waste your time spelling it all out for him. He knows perfectly well already, he’s just playing w/ you. Show him w/ action. Just ignore him. That’s the end of it.

By: Honey

Honey — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:59:39 +0000

I think you should tell him that the reason you can’t hook up with him right now is that you are currently hooking up with someone else (who, if NMP cares, is keeping things drama-free), the sex is great, and after your STD scare (which he knows all about) you aren’t willing to sleep with two guys concurrently, even with condoms.

All of which is actually true but which has the bonus effect of frustrating him beyond belief.

Or, if you are tired of playing the game, you could just accept that he’s not even man enough to be your friend and delete him from your cell phone.
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By: Mal

Mal — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 13:33:16 +0000

you’ve had a few interesting weeks missy, i find the same thing happens, when one ex comes out of the woodwork, they all do (usually just when im starting a new relationship…but anyway)!

im guessing ye have spoken LOTS since june 08 when ye last hooked up, so just tell him its that platonic relationship or nothing

do whatever feels best for you, the reality is you’re gonna be moving in a few months and will most likely be leaving all this baggage far behind when you reach pastures new, if someone isn’t helping you enjoy your life right now, ditch them and move on, life is too short to be wasting on people that dont deserve your time

By: Hammer

Hammer — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 05:14:11 +0000

I like what he’s doing to you. The simple fact that you care enough to even write this post is proof enough that it’s working. He either wants to move ahead with a relationship with you or move on, and denying you platonic attention is the action required for both. You were the POD, the pussy on deck. Now you’re trying to pretend that you and him were ever friends? I think you’re the one who needs to grow up and face the realities of life rather than complaining about them.