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Warm revisited

10 Feb 2010

There is something to be said for being warm.

As NYL and I were cooking a big pot of curry last night, chopping and stirring and “accidentally” bumping into each other in the kitchen, I was warm.

As we cuddled up on the couch to eat dinner, watch the new episode of LOST, and watch the episode of Jerry Springer in which NYL was in the audience and made the funniest/most inappropriate comment ever, I was warm.

As he put his arm around me, kissed me, and pulled me in, I was warm.

As we found ourselves buried under the covers, naked, intertwined, and devouring each other, I was warm.  And as NYL pushed me down on the bed, smacked my ass, and pounded into me like a fucking MAN, I was warm.  (Actually, I was *really* warm here.)

As we soaked in the hot tub, magically protected from the outdoor chill, I was warm.  And as I rested up against NYL and let the stress of the week melt away in the hot, bubbly water, I was so incredibly nice and warm.

As we found ourselves back in bed, hot and sweaty and playful and intense all over again, I was really, really warm.

And finally, as we curled up in bed, tired and content, my forehead resting against his, our legs tangled up together, his arm around me pressing my body into his, I was warm.  And as his cats curled up next to us, their furry little bodies radiating heat on a cold winter night, I was warm.  And as I fell asleep, buried under his huge comforter, cuddled up against him, listening to the purring of the cats, I couldn’t remember the last time I felt so wonderfully warm.

There is something to be said for being warm.  It’s comforting and reassuring, peaceful and secure.  It’s a magical barrier against the chill outside, the falling snow, the harsh wind.  There is something to be said for the warmth of another human being.  It’s so much more natural than being alone – I think people were meant to be together, if only to share the comfort of the warmth that another person can offer – physically, emotionally, spiritually. 

There is something to be said for being warm.  And last night, I was so, so warm.  : )

4 Responses to “Warm revisited”

  1. 1
    Honey Says:

    This is very sweet :-)
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    The Dateable Dork Says:

    Yeah, it was a nice night. : )
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    Matt Savage Says:

    I couldn’t help but think about my laying in bed this morning… and into the early afternoon. Not that I was tired or anything but the warmth of simply laying in bed with flannel sheets and blankets wrapped around me as the cold New England wind was blowing outside was so peaceful and enjoying, I considered simply staying in bed all day. However, I soon realized that there was no one else cuddled up next to me, and that of course would have been the ultimate warmth… which is of course reason enough to get up and get out into the world looking for that potential of cuddly super warmness;)
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    The Dateable Dork Says:

    Haha, very good point, actually. : )
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