The Dateable Dork

A bunch of interesting things to report: (1) Cue porno music… I have officially had sex in my new Cambridge apartment.  Oh baby!  The NMP came over last night, and we went out for drinks, came back to my place so I could show off my mad decorating skillz, and went at it like horny [...]

Stop thinking dirty thoughts, my dears.  : ) I went to two local animal shelters today and looked at all the adorable cats up for adoption.  How friggin’ CUTE are these little guys, seriously?  I am so in love and wanted to take them all home immediately.  The plan is this: Research how to be [...]

I had an awesome day today.  It was overwhelming in so many ways, but all really *good* ways that make me feel so incredibly fortunate, peaceful, grateful, and excited.  It’s the end of the day, and I feel as if I’m completely at peace with the world around me, a feeling that I don’t remember [...]

No word from Bachelor #3 today.  Does he still want to meet up later this week?  Do I still want to meet up with him after the weirdness bomb and subsequent outfall?  Should I just ignore his call/text if he contacts me to confirm?  (Yes, I should totally ignore him, by the way.)  Ahhhh.  This [...]

I have a feeling that things with Bachelor #3 are slowly but surely spiraling downward into the dating black hole of doom.  After one week, geez!  Give me a break, will ya?  This dating shit is fucking driving me crazy. Yesterday (and for most of today, actually) I was pretty convinced that I would never [...]

I learned my lesson a while ago about writing up the details of bad/weird dates, but suffice it to say that things with Bachelor #3 from last week have taken a turn into strange territory.  I hate to say that this is turning into a disaster (because really I’m not sure what the next move [...]

Finally a good one!  : )  Ahhhh, what a breath of fresh air.  I met this guy for a cup of coffee this afternoon, and we wound up having a nice time AND making plans to have dinner later this week.  Score!  We chatted at the coffee shop for a while and hugged hello and [...]

As expected, my two dates this week were both pretty much duds.  Neither one of them was particularly bad or anything, but there was just no chemistry with either one.  Oh well!  Rumor has it that I might have yet another first date tomorrow, so we’ll see if the third time’s a charm.  : ) [...]

OMG this place is awesome.  So cute!  I love it!  The people are so *friendly* and approachable here – like, where did that come from??  Are these people from another planet or something?  Like a non-angry, not-in-a-rush, non-New-York planet?  So weird but so refreshing!  Oh Cambridge, where have you been all my life?  : ) [...]

It’s funny how I’m busier now that I’m unemployed than when I was actually working.  Who knew?  Between fun summer get-togethers, catching up on all my doctor’s appointments for the university health care program, and planning stuff for the new apartment, I feel like I barely have enough time to squeeze out this post.  Craziness!  [...]